Do you still use that “list” when looking for a potential partner?
We all joke and play or seen someone post on social media or even know a friend that falls fast for someone. Me myself I always say “give me 3-5 business days and if I don’t love him by then, he ain’t it.” 🤣 I know when talking to our close friends or associates we normally talk about what we want or desire in a man/woman, some of us may even have an imaginary list of what we are looking for in our potential partner but how many of us actually stick to the list? I know with me I’m not usually strict with what my partner needs to have or what I want in a person as much as I stick to the list of what I wouldn’t tolerate in my mate/relationship. Really quick think about your current mate or your previous mate if you’re single. Pull up that list that you said this person must posses in order for you to want to talk to him/her. How may of those things match? Most of us will find that our partner do not posses many of those things we thought we absolutely wanted them ...