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So according to many articles this mother who I believe is from the UK, left her 20 month old baby in the house alone for 6 days while she partied for her 18th birthday. It says she came home to find her baby dead. She later found out her baby had the flu and due to neglect the baby died .Here are my questions, thoughts and feelings on this topic:  First, I am so heart broken due to this baby girls death. I myself have a 20 month old and first putting myself in the shoes of that baby I literally feel sick. If you have kids, nieces, nephews, godbabies any child around the age of 2 in your life you can probably relate to how I’m feeling right now. Can you imagine leaving them for 6 whole days? Not only being sick but what she got into in those 6 days just being a child? How often she cried, called out mommy? Maybe tried to feed herself or get a drink. How she probably cried herself to sleep woke up and cried again. How scared and alone she may have felt. I’m thinking about how my bab...

  This week on social media Saweetie announced her and Quavo split. She also said she left emotionally a long time ago before they physically split.   There was a thread on Twitter with females and males bashing her because they felt like if she no longer had any emotional ties to him why stay longer than need be? Of course some guys were calling her a gold digger and even some females said she only stayed because of his status.  Do you feel if someone leave emotionally first, that immediately after they should leave physically?  Do you think if he was a “regular” guy she would have waited so long to leave physically?  These were all the things these people were implying.  I would have to disagree with their accusations because us “regular” people do this all the time. Stay longer than we should. Many times before we leave whether we leave emotionally first or last we often give that person a million tries/chances. It’s a bunch of forgiveness, talks, emotio...

  Why is genuine love so hard to find? I just want love. Genuine, don’t want to be hurt or heartbroken before I get an unbreakable bond type of love. While my friends were in high school and even middle school  🥴  having sex and in relationships I was a late bloomer. Didn’t even enter into my first relationship until I was 18. Those failed relationships were heartbreaking. They ended messy! I have only been in 3 real relationships. My longest relationship was 4 years from 19 until about 23 maybe 24. The first 2 I was cheated on, humiliated, just heart shattered into pieces. In between that one and my last one which produced my baby girl I “dated” guys but no one was ever faithful, most of their mental was to cheat on me before I cheated on them, or to have other females “in the tuck” just in case. I’ve dealt with guys who left out the “I have a girlfriend” part when dating me. I’ve dated guys that chased me for years and when finally given the chance they were living a d...

  Do you or have you ever lied to your mate or Ex habitually? Why? I’m not sure I’ve ever been in or witnessed a situation where lying for any reason has made a situation better. I recently asked someone I used to deal with to openly and honestly tell me his reasons behind constantly lying to me even though I ALWAYS find the truth and he flat out said “it’s to protect your feelings.”  But has this ever protected feelings? Or caused more problems and left the feelings more open and exposed.  In my opinion, many people lie not to protect feelings but to continue to “ have their cake and eat it too.” Lying only “protect” a situation or a double life of the person that’s doing the lying. They know that telling the truth could potentially cause them to lose everything they have in that current space they are In. You will no longer have 2 females you’re dealing with or you won’t have 2 men giving you money and or paying your bills.  People telling the lies don’t actually t...