Are they really loyal? Earned or Defaulted?
Have you ever sat back and thought about why you gave your friend the title BEST FRIEND? Or why is that cousin your “Favorite”? What test have they passed proving their loyalty to you? Have you ever passed the loyalty test for them? We often hold people to the highest level plus some because they’ve been around us for a long time. You guys are building a connection simply because they are always around and not because there is actually a bond being built. If your BEST bitch or FAVORITE cousin never showed you they were down for you then how do you know it’s through thick or thin? Most people have only been loyal to you this long SIMPLY BECAUSE THEY HAVE NEVER BEEN PUT IN A POSITION TO CROSS YOU. They have only been “holding you down” this long SIMPLY BECAUSE THEY HAVE YET TO HAVE THE CHANCE TO LET YOU GO. How can you deem someone loyal if they never been in a position to “have your back, speak up for you, step up for you, step for you, or speak on your behalf”?...