Everyone Must Go! Maybe even friends and family.

 As you get older you began to appreciate quality over quantity. Especially when it comes to things/situation like friends/family & support. 

Compare your friendships from 10 years ago to now. See a big change in them? 10 years ago I was surround by many "friends" who only deserved the "associate" title. 

Please understand that there is beauty, peace and humbleness in the process of losing people. Especially people that's not around you to help you grow 💕.

You may have heard the saying "look around, if you're always losing people then the problem may just be you." And for so long I looked at that with a negative connotation. But if you dig deeper there is beauty in rearranging it the people you allow into your space. As you grow and began to blossom as a person, lover, and or a friend your circle should also blossom with you. Dead leaves/branches must be cut so you can continue to grow and bloom beautifully. Some of the people that need to be cut off so you can continue to grow like you need to will hurt. Sometime you have to cut what feels like your main line in order to breathe peacefully again. Many times its people you thought wouldn't have a problem adjusting to grow with you. 

Keep this gem with you. Always understand that everyone you keep around you or even associate with doesn't always mean you well. We need to normalize cutting branches off at the first sight of death (dying relationships, evil intentions,bad vibes). Sometimes we wait so long hoping they will change or trying to see the good or hoping what you are actually experiencing isn't really reality. So by the time it's time to cut them off it has almost took the whole tree with it. 

What are some qualities or traits you won't accept? What are some situations you went through that left you with with tears in one hand and scissors in the other? 

Here are a few of mine:

• Secret hate. 

• Always clapping for their success but they are never around for you to even see if they are clapping for you. 

• secret competition.

• I absolutely hate competing with someone I'm supporting and supposed be winning with. 

• disappearing in my time of need.

• it's nothing worst than going through something and your world is starting to turn black and the people you think you can call and lean on is no where to be found. 

• not being about to come to you and tell you when you did something wrong.

• but they do petty things to you instead of speaking up. Especially to a person you should be on a high pedals-tool with. 

•  Turning into your enemy based off of situations that do not directly effect them.

• maybe you went through something with someone else and they didn't like how you handled it, right or wrong, but now they dislike you because of it and began to treat you wrong. 

A friend should be as transparent as possible. Someone you could never image doing something harmful to you. Even if you did something hurtful or harmful (10/10 time unintentionally) they should be able to address it and come to a solution with because of the relationship you should already have established with them. 

Another point you should always remember is that everyone is not meant to elevate with you. Not everyone can keep up. Most people wear mask and hide what they are really experience or going through. They are much more behind than what they tell or display. Some people, even the most important ones to you don't want to elevate. They don't want to blossom so they rather kill the whole tree than to detach themselves until they are healthy enough to help everyone around them grow. 

Never feel bad for doing what's necessary to keep you and your circle above water. 

You can be there for someone 100 times, you can support someone 2,000 times, you can answer for them 300 times, but they give you no room to put NO in your vocabulary when it comes to them. They are also not mature enough to come to you as an adult. These are the people who true Intensions will quickly show. The problem comes in when we have to see it, accept it and dead it sooner than later. 

We must keep the grass cut low and our foundation watered to keep it elevating and most times that mean getting rid of the weeds and snakes even if they are connected to us by blood or the heart. 

Never down yourself for wanting to keep your surrounding peaceful and humble. Never dumb yourself down to help someone keep up. 

Your circle, friends, family, and even associates, anyone that you give the pleasure of being around you should all match your aura, vibe, and level of growth. 

Push the factor of cutting people off while your limb is still able to regrow itself. Let's stop waiting until this dead weight is close to taking the whole tree. 

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